Self-Actualization – Mental maturity & higher EQ by Discernment the Architect of Awakening
Girish Jha, Coach and Guide, Eastern Wisdom . Blog for Self-Actualization
Manas-Paripakvata: The Architect of Awakening (Not Another “Nice-To-Have” Skill)
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Before you attempt to “awaken,” you need to ensure that your internal architecture isn’t built on shifting sands. In this model, Manas Paripakvata (mental maturity) isn’t a “nice to have” because of spirituality; it’s the structural engineer of the entire journey. Without a steady mind ( ability to gather the mind scattered in millions of directions outside) , no amount of meditation technique will get you to peace.
Mental Maturity Is 60–70% of the Journey
Eastern Wisdom programs on Self-Actualization will reveal why masters make assertion that 60 to 70 percent of the journey to awakening is mental maturity and inner strength. Most people never succeed at spirituality because they attempt to build the attic (refine their meditation techniques) before the foundation (mental maturity). Without this, spirituality becomes “spiritual gossip” – something that you talk about but never actually experience.
“Without the first four steps of maturity (understanding rare human birth, mental maturity, burning desire for freedom, discipline to keep mind in the realization-mode), spirituality is just a gossip.”
From Renting Happiness to Owning, It
Most people rent their happiness from the world. For example, a job, a partner, a bank balance. When the terms change, their happiness gets kicked out. Manas Paripakvata is the skill that helps you shift from renting to owning your happiness.
Blame and Complaint Are Energy Leaks, Not Personality Quirks
It is not just “the way I am” to blame others, to feel jealous, or to complain. These are huge leaks in your inner real estate. Every time you react in any of these ways, you are draining the energy needed to see things clearly, to make discerning judgments, or to meditate. You have reached maturity when every incident of blame is for you a significant energy cost and you discover external and internal calm in all locations and relations.
Handling the Mind Without Hating It
There is a subtle description of maturity in Eastern Wisdom. You can see the storms in your mind. You can see them without turning against the mind itself. You have transcended to the level of a surgeon who is precise, detached, and kind. You are no longer a victim who is ashamed of the mind. You have transcended to the level where you can pilot the mind rather than being dragged by the mind.
Progress Is Proven by Attitude, Behavior, Conduct, Not Visions
The test of maturity is tough. You must ask yourself whether your behavior has changed. Blue lights, sensations, or any other experiences are of secondary importance. The only thing that is relevant is how you behave in conflicts, in emergencies, or in long-term relationships.
“If your behavior hasn’t changed, you haven’t moved an inch.”
If a camera were to honestly record your behavior for a week, would it show the mind being piloted by Manas Paripakvata or would it show the mind being run by the old software?
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